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What ifs, should, and could have…

I am currently researching, reviewing, and studying about how to respond during cardiac arrest…  

Did you know that one of my beloved loved one passed away due to “heart attack”? It happened such a long time ago… a decade ago… It happened when I was still young and unable to help… It shattered my world and it preceded life events that shaped who I am today…

Even though it has been ages since it happened, I never forgot… will NEVER FORGET. You see that person raised me to be the strong person that I am. That person educated me on all things necessary in life that I did not realize were necessary. She showed through example and just by being herself. A person full of intelligence, love, kindness, and endless warmth. She was the very foundation of our family. Without her, everything crumbled to pieces. Without her, I am lost, we were/are so lost.

I dearly miss her… I still cry to this day… Though not as often as when it just happened, but I still do cry. I cry for all the missed milestones that she SHOULD have been present… I cry for the times that I just needed a shoulder to cry on, a person to give me life advice, a person that would say everything will be okay even though she is not sure herself… I miss her achingly and passionately… She WAS my world and she was ripped away from me way to early.

Mama, why did you have to leave us to early? Why did you have to leave me way too soon? Just when I was about to need you desperately, you just disappeared. It is not fair. Yes, I know life is not fair but losing a loved one as a young child is NEVER FAIR! 

The day she passed away was just a typical day. Well, I think it was typical. I woke up late and failed to join here for her weekend escapade with her sisters. I was angry of course but she was running late hence I ended up staying at home, with a 50 bill. An unexpected amount of money, she never gave me this much before. But I was just happy to receive it and did not ponder its significance until much later. The plan was for my aunt and I to join them later in the afternoon. I was excited of course… unknowing of the inevitable…

Around mid-day, the telephone rang, it was my mama asking to speak with my aunt. She wanted to know the names of her medications since she just ran out of them recently. The ever oblivious me, did not ponder about this. This was the last time, I ever spoke to her… The very last time I would ever hear her voice…

I do not know why we ended up not going to the city that day, instead we lounged and ate chips and drank soda. Until the phone rang again… 

Let me tell you the series of events that happened according to my mama’s sisters. You see after that phone call around mid-day, they were on their way to go to the pharmacy inside the mall to renew her prescriptions. All of a sudden, they said that my mama just experienced a severe chest pain and collapsed. She had a heart attack, they said luckily there was a medical personnel who attended to her before ambulance arrived who transported her to the hospital. Along the way, she died and was declared “dead on arrival”. We did not know this was happening while we were on the road, 3 hours away blasting the car horn at neck-breaking speed just trying to be there on time. We were too late but we did not know that until we arrived in the hospital and saw my mama’s sisters crying. 

We were too late! How cruel can life be? Why do others get to say goodbye and we did not? It just happened in a blink of an eye…

You may ask how this all relate to my current focus of study, it is related because now I have all these questions regarding the series of events that lead to her death that will never be answered. Was she given CPR? rescue breaths? Did she know that she should have taken aspirin and nitroglycerin the moment she felt chest pain? Probably not. She was even right in front of the pharmacy at that!!! I do not think she was educated about it nor lots of other people are educated that when they think they are having heart attack symptoms that they should take aspirin and nitroglycerin (obviously not at the same time!). Of course, there are other medical history that should be noted but I am 100% sure that my mama should have been given or should have taken aspirin and nitroglycerin. 

Additionally, was CPR and rescue breaths given? How fast was the ambulance? Where I grew up, ambulance services does not arrive within minutes. These precious minutes do save lives particularly in cases of cardiac arrest and stroke since minutes count. I am in no way blaming them, I am thankful for them but this brings up necessary conversation regarding the need for updating and improving emergency services. 

What kind of training did the emergency personnel got regarding cardiac arrest? I know they tried their best in transporting her as quickly as possible but were they equipped? Did they supply her with oxygen? Did they attach her to an ECG monitor? Did they hang IV fluids/medications? These are kinds of questions that plague me these days. I know they are not healthy but I am left wondering that what if, I was older when all of these happened, would I have been able to help her? What if I had the wisdom to research about cardiac arrest and discussed it with my family, would we have known what to do when it happened? 

I could never bring her back but what I could do is raise awareness regarding how to respond to these kinds of emergencies, particularly cardiac arrest and stroke.

Do you know how to respond to it? Are you trained in CPR? I believe that every one should be trained in CPR and first aid since we do not know when it will be handy. For now, I will update my CPR certification and continue to study and improve my understanding regarding cardiac arrest and stroke. 

 

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My blog journey

I have never thought of starting my own blog until a few days ago. I do have lots of ideas in my head but I have never entertained the idea of publishing or in this case, blogging it for the world to see. I guess what finally pushed me towards establishing my own blog is my need to find an outlet for all the things that are stuck inside my head. Talking about all my ideas to somebody can just go to such an extent until boredom or life kicks in and I am still left having that need for somebody or something to talk about. From that thirst to take out my inner thoughts resulted to the establishment of this blog.

Creating my first blog is quite unnerving. It is like learning how to ride a bike. To tell you the truth it also took me years to have the courage to learn how to ride a bike after my first bike riding attempt resulted in me falling. No, I did not injure myself. I only injured myself once I learned how to ride a bike. Writing a blog, like riding a bike can be quite exciting at a distance but once one delves into the intricacies of creating one, it can be quite overwhelming. To be honest, I still have no clue how my blog would unfold or what kind of topics I would discuss in this blog. However one thing is for certain, I would definitely talk about my parenting journey.  I would talk about topics that interest me as a parent at this moment in time. It is because parenting is the sun that my whole universe revolves around on. Being a parent is my main identity and my main focus and it would just be natural to talk about being a parent in this blog. Amidst parenthood being a central piece of this blog that does not mean I would not talk about other ideas or topics. I know myself too well that my mind would definitely jump from ideas to ideas so this blog would certainly not only focus on parenting that is for sure.

                                                                                                                               ~The Kurdi Mom

“A person who never made a mistake never tried anything new” by Albert Einstein 

My thoughts

LIFE…

What is it about life, or living that makes it both fascinating yet confusing?

Living is a never ending cycle of happiness or sadness, regrets or successes, bliss or loneliness… 

As a child, our entire world are so simple, so straightforward… Our entire world revolves around our immediate vicinity, our immediate needs, wants, family, and friends. 

Looking back on my childhood, I was easily happy, easily captivated by the beauty of nature or a trivial object that catches my vivid imagination. I used to be able to feel contentment and happiness just looking at the soil with water running about. I used to imagination the earth that I stood upon is a miniature version of the earth and the ants are people. I found great wonderment at pretending I was looking over the great expanse of the earth and see how rivers and oceans flow. It was a great past time. A great time of pure imagination.

As I grew up my fascination and happiness became more focused on earthly materials, like grades, clothes, stuff. Just stuff that could be acquired, bought, and dreamed of owning just because others appears to like it too… 

Slowly my imagination die… my pure fascination and happiness slowly ebbs away as the calendar turn from pages to pages… 

As I currently sit here, in front of the computer, I reflect back on my life and realize how futile some aspects of my life has become… I feel hollow inside. I feel lonely and alone…

I crave for that moment of pure, unadulterated happiness, of simple pleasures of life. Of a life of a child… Alas I cannot turn back time, and I cannot live forever as a child. Time has passed and loved ones has gone and drifted away … yet here I am dreaming and craving for the days gone past… 

 

 

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Julie/Julia movie

OMG! Where have I been hiding all? Or perhaps why have I not heard about this amazing and totally realistic movie? It totally resonates my current life right now. Plus both of these ladies depicts real life scenarios of both the struggles of life especially trying to find something that would make you feel worthy. I really love how Julia is quite optimistic amidst some blatant judgmental looks or comments thrown her way. She basically lives her life to the fullest and is not afraid to try something new. She made me aspire to be her when she enrolled and even succeeded in being the best student at Le Cordon Blue! This is during a time that a woman chef does not seem to be looked favourably. Plus her amazing husband totally supports her sometime outlandish ideas! It does remind me somewhat of my dear husband who is quite supportive of my dreams and do work quite hard to make it a reality. He even does put my dreams first before his very own which makes me very thankful though a bit sad at the same time.

Julie on the other hand does particularly mirrors what I am doing at this very moment. She is quite tired of her daily life and needs something to make her life exciting, hence the blog. I am the same way. Though she is totally better than me since she made a deadline and completed it. I do have these long absences in writing. Life gets in the way and sometimes I just do not know how to properly organize my jumbling thoughts into a coherent blog piece. It does also seem like Julie is experiencing a crossroad in her life that made her want to do something that she had not done before just like I have not really published my thoughts before as well…

This movie both aspires and touches me to the core. It totally made me reflect on my current reality and future endeavours that I wish to accomplish. I have found two amazing women to look up to and aspire.

What movies has touched you to your core? Please share your thoughts and do give me an advice on how to stay on top of my writing. THANK YOU!

my research paper

Breastfeeding: A Mini Literature Review

I have always encountered discussions regarding how culture impacts breastfeeding decision-making. I therefore decided to make a mini literature review of the current research regarding the topic. I do not pretend that I am knowledgeable regarding this very complex topic. This paper is also NOT PUBLISHED IN ANY JOURNAL ARTICLES. This is only written by a mom who loves research and decided to make an informal research paper. 

To What Extent do Maternal Culture Affect Breastfeeding Decisions and Outcomes?

Abstract

The author conducted a literature search regarding breastfeeding outcomes within the context of maternal culture. The author categorized her findings based on geographical location and ethnic identity—Middle Eastern, Asian, and African. The mini literature review revealed complex and at times contradicting beliefs within a specific culture. Another recurring theme that was consistently mentioned amongst the diverse cultures is the misconception regarding colostrum. The author aims that the literature findings will facilitate future Canadian research endeavors focusing on the breastfeeding implications amongst diverse cultures. Furthermore, the author aims that through this paper’s findings, a culturally competent care will be implemented in the health care setting.

Keywords: breastfeeding, culture, Middle-Eastern, Asian, African, literature review

Taber’s medical dictionary defines breastfeeding as “the giving of mother’s milk to a newborn, infant, or child” (Venes, 2005, p. 312-314; p. 555). Breastfeeding benefits include provision of a “balanced nutritional content,” protection against gastrointestinal and respiratory problems, promotion of overall development, mother-infant attachment, and promotion of uterine contractions post-childbirth (Kramer et al., 2008, p. 578-584; Premani, Kurji, & Mithani, 2011, p. 1-10; Thomas, Williams, & Hartmann, 2010, p. 86-90). Culture, on the other hand, is defined as the shared “attitudes, beliefs, [and] customs” (Venes, 2005, p. 312-314; p. 555). As Canadian society becomes increasingly multicultural, the need for a culturally competent health care becomes apparent in order to address the needs of diverse cultures in terms of breastfeeding decisions and behaviours.

The aim of this paper is to provide and educate health care professionals and the public regarding the complexity of cultural practices and beliefs in relation to breastfeeding decision-making and behaviours. The author reviews relevant research literature and analyzes breastfeeding within the context of Middle-Eastern, Asian, and African Cultures. The author focused her mini literature review upon the following research question: “To what extent do maternal culture affect breastfeeding decisions and outcomes?”

LITERATURE REVIEW

            The author classified the research literature findings into three subcategories—Middle-Eastern, Asian, and African—based on geographical location and ethnic identification.

Middle-Eastern

Jessri, Farmer, and Olson (2013) define individuals of Middle-Eastern descent as “those born and raised in one of the countries located in the Persian Gulf” (p. 43). Middle-Eastern culture is prevalently Muslim and Islamic teachings are deeply influential regarding breastfeeding behaviours (Jessri, Farmer, & Olson, p. 41-56). These beliefs and practices include the command to breastfeed for two years, waiting for three calls of prayer before breastfeeding initiation, cessation of breastfeeding when pregnant, and practice of hiring a wet nurse (Demirtas, Ergocmen, & Taskin, 2011, p. 1109-1118; Jessri et al., 2013, p. 41-56). Furthermore, Middle-Eastern culture tends to be family-oriented and patriarchal resulting in having multiple generations living within one household, a strong reliance on familial advice, and a risk for breastfeeding mothers becoming burdened with household tasks while trying to find balance with breastfeeding the infant (Jessri et al., 2013, p. 41-56). Due to communal households, breastfeeding becomes difficult due to modesty issues facilitating mothers to supplement (Demirtas et al., p. 1109-1118; Renzaho & Oldroyd, 2013, p. 1-12).

These practices have both the potential of positive and negative outcomes. Positive outcomes include the extended duration of breastfeeding and availability of a wet nurse to breastfeed the infant if the mother is unable to do so. The wet nurse can be anyone in the family or within the community that is willing to breastfeed the infant while the mother is busy accomplishing household tasks. In the event of a lack of wet nurse within the community, a milk bank can be established and utilized though it does need rigorous testing and abundance of mothers willing to donate their breast milk. However, the utilization of milk bank can be tricky within Middle-Eastern culture since Islamically the milk donor’s infant and the infant receiving donor’s milk are considered milk siblings. The milk siblings are not allowed to marry so utilization of milk banks are more than likely avoided my Middle-Eastern mothers due to these possible issues. On the contrary, delayed breastfeeding initiation due to observance of the prayers or household chores obligations can result in an increased risk of maternal breast milk insufficiency and colostrum depletion (Thomas et al., 2010, p. 86-90). Additionally, multi-generational households can potentially have a positive effect regarding breastfeeding attitudes, initiation, and continuation. On the other hand, mothers may end up supplementing early due to breastfeeding inappropriateness in front of other family members. Middle-Eastern breastfeeding mothers needs to be provided with familial support in terms of household obligations, as well as, being educated on the health benefits of early breastfeeding initiation.

Asian

According to Chen (2010), Chinese cultural beliefs and practices seek harmony between maternal and infant health (p. 1021-1029). These include the belief of breast milk purity, resting post-childbirth to regain vitality, as well as, positive attitudes with breastfeeding (Chen, 2010, p. 1021-1029). Renzaho and Oldroyd (2013) further states that within Chinese culture, traditional medicines are used to reduce pain and stimulate breast milk production (p. 1-12). Emphasis on maternal health are shared among Chinese, Vietnamese, and Thai cultures involving practices such as resting, tonic soup consumption, steam baths, and massages (Chen, 2010, p. 1021-1029; Schmied et al., 2012, p. 1-15). Furthermore, these cultures also allow women to discontinue breastfeeding when they fear that they are “losing heat” and are too ill to breastfeed (Schmied et al., 2012, p. 1-15).

Amidst prevalent beliefs regarding the psychological benefits of breastfeeding, barriers such as difficulty to breastfeed due to embarrassment and roles as a daughter-in-law contribute to breastfeeding discontinuation among some South Asian cultures (Choudhry & Wallace, 2012, p. 72-87; Schmied et al., 2012, p. 1-15; Twamley, Puthussery, Harding, Baron, & Macfarlane, 2011, p. 595-602). Furthermore, the benefits of colostrum are contradictory among Asian cultures; Thai culture believes that colostrum gives immunity while Pakistani and Indian culture discards it due to the belief of colostrum rancidity (Schmied et al., 2012, p. 1-15). Moreover, Hirani and Premji (2009) states that feeding the infant boiled honey and water instead of colostrum are prevalent among Pakistanis (p. 18-24). Based on these findings, there is a need for education regarding colostrum benefits and the botulism risk present with honey introduction.

As the literature reveals, Asian cultural breastfeeding practices and beliefs are complex and varies from country of origin. A facilitator of breastfeeding within Asian cultures includes the understanding of breast milk benefits while barriers include greater emphasis on maternal health, the cultural norm of maintaining modesty, and colostrum misconceptions. Furthermore, there is a need for education regarding the consequences of introducing honey to infants and risk of developing botulism. Additionally, a balance between promoting maternal health needs and breastfeeding benefits to both mother and infant needs to be emphasized.

African

According to Renzaho and Oldroyd (2013), African women were given maize porridge and beer derived from sorghum to promote lactation (p. 1-12). This finding supports Steinman et al. (2010) who states that Somali mothers are encouraged to drink a lot of fluids such as, tea with milk and goat soup to promote production of breast milk (p. 67-88). The researchers revealed that Somali mothers tend to breastfeed for a year and find breastfeeding soothing to the infant, preventing nighttime sleep disturbance (p. 67-88). Literature findings pertaining to Somali beliefs about colostrum are mixed but the majority share a strong opposition regarding breastfeeding if it has stayed in the breast for hours. Furthermore, supplementation is also encouraged and practiced especially when there is a perceived milk insufficiency. A cause of concern is a Somalian practice of administering honey into the infant’s lips and gums amidst risk of botulism in which majority was unaware of (Steinman et al., 2010, p. 67-88).

Infant grandmothers in Malawi are influential breastfeeding and food introduction decision makers. Common foods introduced to infants under six months includes: “mzuwula (root infusion), water, dawale (herbal infusion), and porridge”. “Mzuwula” is given to prevent infants against “moto” which is an illness identified only by the grandmothers and elders within the village. Supplementation is introduced to infants due to the grandmother’s perceived maternal milk insufficiency. Furthermore, a prevalent Malawi belief is when an infant cries after childbirth, the infant is believed to have a stomachache and is given “dawale” and porridge (Kerr, Dakishoni, Shumba, Msachi, & Chirwa, 2008, p. 1095-1105).

African cultural practices raise alarming concerns particularly the early introduction of supplementation such as a root extract and porridge which could have negative effects on infant health. Cultural beliefs regarding these supplementations needs to be further explored and if possible an alternative could be promoted without risking harm to the infant. Additionally, education regarding the consequences of these supplementations on infant health outcomes needs to be emphasized in a culturally sensitive manner. On the contrary, the prevalent African cultural postpartum maternal care of administering fluids should be noted as a positive behaviour that promotes lactation and should be encouraged. In addition, familial influence, particularly infant grandmothers, is prevalent and should therefore be included in breastfeeding teaching.

GAPS IN RESEARCH

            The author identified the following as gaps in research: lack of Canadian literature focused on cultural impacts of breastfeeding, lack of literature regarding East Indian, Filipino, and other African nationalities in relation to breastfeeding behaviours, and lack of an intervention-focused literature regarding breastfeeding within the context of culture.

RECOMMENDATIONS

            The author recommends the following practices to address cultural diversity in terms of breastfeeding as follows: provision of culturally competent health care with a focus on increasing cultural awareness; inclusion of family members, particularly the husband and mother-in-law during post-partum care; implementation of a shared maternal and infant health emphasis; provision of the benefits of colostrum during teaching; and teaching breastfeeding information through the use of interpreters, pictograms, and pamphlets in various languages.

CONCLUSION

            This mini literature review revealed that maternal culture has a multifaceted effect on breastfeeding decisions and outcomes. It identified some cultural facilitators and barriers on breastfeeding decisions and outcomes. Findings were categorized according to ethnic identification—Middle-Eastern, Asian, and African. Middle-Eastern culture revealed a practice of an extended breastfeeding duration however supplementation is also common due to communal household dynamics and difficulty in balancing household tasks with infant care. Some Asian cultures practiced a maternal emphasis on postpartum care. Furthermore, colostrum understanding was contradictory for both Asian and African cultures. Amidst the promising breastfeeding support prevalent in African cultures, there are concerning health hazards that were noted particularly early supplementation of herbal concoctions that could pose a health risk to the infant. In conclusion, this study identified several gaps in the literature including a lack of Canadian literature focused on breastfeeding outcomes within a cultural perspective as well as in depth exploration of breastfeeding practices in other nationalities. The author recommended the utilization of this paper as a starting point towards implementation of culturally competent care through cultural breastfeeding norms awareness and inclusion of extended family members as integral part of the breastfeeding journey. Additionally, in depth research regarding the implications of often contradictory breastfeeding knowledge and practices should be further explored in order to find a balance between respecting cultural background with ideal maternal and infant health outcomes.

REFERENCES

  • Chen, W. (2010). Understanding the cultural context of Chinese mothers’ perceptions of breastfeeding and infant health in Canada. Journal of Clinical Nursing, 19, 1021-1029. doi: 10.1111/j.1365-2702.2009.02956.x
  • Choudhry, K. & Wallace, L. M. (2012). ‘Breast is not always best’: South Asian women’s experiences of infant feeding in the UK within an acculturation framework. Maternal and Child Nutrition, 8, 72-87. doi: 10.1111/j.1740-8709.2010.00253.x
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Baby Products, shoes

Geox shoes

My search for comfortable shoes is ongoing especially since my baby’s feet is constantly outgrowing the shoes he currently have! Shoes are so expensive yet toddlers are outgrowing it left and right. Since my son’s current shoes is almost too tight, we decided to try and search for new shoes to buy again! Just like any parents or caregivers, this kind of endeavor takes days if not even weeks to accomplish. Things get in the way of a shopping trip or we fail to find THE perfect shoe with reasonable price. Just like typical #kurdidad fashion, he just randomly announced that we will be going to the mall. He does this kind of surprises and unplanned trips ever since I met him and I AM STILL NOT USED TO IT! It drives me crazy all the time. You see, I like to PLAN things. I HATE when I am not properly prepared for all the “what ifs” that might happen during that trip. I hate last minute plans. It just gives me anxiety and gives me a bad mood. HATE IT, HATE IT! Yet, my husband still LOVES SURPRISES. He still does not understand why I NEED to be told days before of this impending trip. Even though during the times that I am not prepared because of his surprises, we would then need a particular baby item which he would ask why I did not bring it! Like hello, whose fault was it? Anyway, I digress. So here I was scrambling to at least try to bring things that we might need during this trip. I am already in a bad mood so he gets the silent treatment. Once we reached the mall, we looked at different children stores yet failed to find the shoes that we both like. Until we happen to pass by this new store in the mall. Out of curiosity, we decided to give their products a look. OMG! I have never been so in love with toddler shoes so much until I saw and felt these shoes! These shoes is made of ITALIAN LEATHER and are so fashionable yet so comfy!  Geox shoes are so breathable and has an inner lining that can be taken out for ease of measurements as well as for cleaning purposes. We all know that all kinds of things fall in the abyss of toddler shoes, right? Even I still experience having a random small rock fall in my own shoes, how much more my toddler’s shoes? The shoes are antibacterial which is a huge plus since we all know that toddlers can be so gross at times. I love that these shoes are made of 2 velcro flaps which makes it contour and fit toddler’s feet. We even bought this shoes in a size or 2 bigger yet my son can still walk comfortably without the shoes flying away. The sole of the shoe  are also nonskid which prevents toddlers from slipping since they are still trying to control their balance. I love these shoes amidst it being quite expensive but I could totally see myself as being another loyal goex shoes customer. We did get it on sale though so it did not hurt my husband’s pockets that much.

What do you think of this beauty? Have you tried Goex shoes before? What other pet-peeves do you have? Are you a planner like me or a spur-of-the-moment person like my husband?
Baby Products, Playtex

Playtex sipsters stage 3

Playtex stage 3 insulated sipsters are so durable and of good quality. We have been using these sippy cups for months now and they are still functioning quite well. My son loves using these sippy cups and he even mastered how to close or open the lids and even throw the whole thing! Amidst some bruises, this poor sippy cup is still going strong. I do like that it can be taken apart in order to be cleaned properly. Furthermore, this particular sippy cup is insulated so it keeps liquids cold for quite a while.

They do dry quickly but you just have to make sure to separate the bottle from the lid and straw in order for the straw to dry properly. These sippy cups are affordable and can held by a toddler quite easily. Even though my son sometimes bites the straw, it is still functioning and does not seem like it needs replacing yet. Furthermore, I love that it has a lid cover since it helps prevents leaks or even covers the straw whenever my son thinks it is funny to throw his sippy cup.

Jujube, Jujube Accessories

JuJuBe Messenger Strap

Have you ever felt the despair when you first received your JuJuBe messenger strap and it cannot be adjusted? That instant feeling of panic? Well, I did experience just that. I had to mentally tell myself that this is fixable. UNTIL! I realized that the metallic adjuster of the messenger strap can be taken out! YES, YOU HEARD THAT RIGHT! It can be REMOVED! How amazing is that? Well for me, it is just a genius idea. I then had to carefully analyze how to do it without risking ruining my new messenger strap.

HOW TO DETACH AND RE-ATTACH THE STRAP ADJUSTER: 

1) I started by carefully folding the outer sides of the straps in order to reveal the hidden opened ends of the rectangular strap adjuster.

 

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Here is another angle wherein you can see that I sort of pushed the ends of the strap inwards and then reinserted it to the strap adjuster.

photo 3 (2)2) You would then do the same on the other end. Here is a pic of both sides being folded in order to be able to remove the strap adjuster from being attached to the strap.

 

photo 4 (2)3) Then just slide the strap adjuster until fully out of the strap. Here is what the strap adjuster looks like. I have not encountered strap adjusters not being connected on all ends. This design is absolutely genius and I love that it can be done. No more having to worry about exchanging a messenger strap and waiting for days for the a new strap to arrive. As you can see in the picture below, my strap adjuster was located on the other end of the strap hence it can only go to a certain length due to the strap pads blocking its way.

 

photo 1 (3).JPG4) Since my hook ring was on the other side of the strap. I had to feed the rest of the strap through the strap pad. Once you looped the strap out of the strap pad, you can then remove the hook ring as shown below.

 

photo 2 (3).JPG5) You would then insert the strap adjuster first then the hook ring as shown below.

photo 3 (3).JPG6) Next, you would fold the strap backwards and then connect both open ends of the strap adjuster in the open part of the strap just like how you took it out (refer to #1 and 2) as shown below.

 

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End result would look like this! Hopefully, I was able to help you during your times of frustration and confusion if ever you encounter this kind of dilemma.

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Baby Products

Live Clean Baby Tearless Shampoo and Wash

I LOVE THIS PRODUCT. It is amazing plus it can be used both as a body wash as well as shampoo! 2 for the price of 1! It is also mostly plant-based, paraben free, and phthalate free!!! It is quite affordable and the container is huge which can last for quite a while. I also love the container which makes it very easy to use especially when bathing or showering a squirming toddler! It smells amazing as well.

 

The contents is clear liquid so you can be assured that there is no colouring added to it. I am also very happy that they list the ingredients that are plant derived which is quite important for me when buying products for my baby. I do wish there is no parfum and glycerin added though. But since it is affordable, tearless, and easily obtainable where I live, I am happy with this product.